REI store. We would grab a coffee at one of fav coffee shops and head to REI and spend hrs just roaming the isles...total bliss!Thursday, July 29, 2010
Free Kids Adventure Jounal
REI store. We would grab a coffee at one of fav coffee shops and head to REI and spend hrs just roaming the isles...total bliss!Monday, July 26, 2010
Elementary Class - July 24-25
Can you imagine a generation with this kind of faith? I can, because that is why I'm here doing what I'm doing...Partnering with you, the parent, invest in this Next Generation, that will trust God and do what He asked them to do, even when it seems so, so crazy! PreK/K Class - July 24/25
Take some time this week the review these passages and talk to your child about the difference between happiness and joy and what gives you joy. Take some time and get away, "go smell the flowers". The Family Devotional that was sent home this last weekend has a great activity called Nature Walk - get out, unplug and enjoy God's creation with your family!Note to the Kids Team!
If you were anywhere near Heritage Church, Bettendorf Campus this last weekend you would have seen a lot of people you didn’t know! To me that is awesome! Not that I don’t like to see people I know but I’m here to see NEW people and then see the people I know helping the people that a I don’t know (did that make sense?). That is what drives me. And I hope it drives you also!
GOKIDS! Grand Opening!Ya, I know Bettendorf Campus has been open for almost 2 years, so why are we having a Grand Opening Party? Because parties are FUN! And to roll out the new name, GOKIDS!
The date is Sept 11/12 weekend. Cool things happening @ the Grand Opening:
- A party in each room
- Games & Snacks in each room
- Clowns (not the scary kind but the fun kind)
- Balloons and streamers all over the place
- Bounce house(s)
- Tour tickets for adults (I need tour guides!)
Have a great week and thanks for Investing in the Next Generation! Pastor Steve
Thursday, July 22, 2010
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Wednesday, July 21, 2010
The Greatest Missionary-Being a Mom
Monday, July 19, 2010
Elementary Class - July 17/18
Parents,this last weekend the elementary class dove into the lesson God Knows What is Best for ME: I Should Follow His Rules! The bible story was our of Exodus 19-20 with God giving the 10 Commandments to the Israelites.
Take some time this week and read these chapters to your family. Talk to your child about the 10 commandments and how they apply in your home. But take it farther and look up what Jesus taught about each commandment. Use your bible concordance to find the New Testament teachings. Some examples below:
- In Matthew 5:21-26, Jesus stated that the sixth commandment condemned murder, but told his followers: “I tell you that anyone who is angry with his brother will be subject to judgment." He warned them against using evil names against each other and that they should resolve their conflicts.
- Referring to the seventh commandment forbidding adultery, Jesus declared in Matthew 5:28, "anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart." His emphasis was on controlling evil, lustful desires.
Enjoy this bible study with your family. Pastor Steve
PreK/K - July 17/18 Weekend
this last weekend the PreK/K class was in lesson #4 in the Ten Hut series. The lesson was titled,
I Will Be Kind When Others Are Mean! and the bible story was out of 1 Samuel 26:1-25. The story when David decided not to harm King Saul when he had a chance. All it takes is 5 minutes on any playground in America and you can see the opposite of this teaching acted out in our young kids. Kids can be mean, kids choose to retaliate, kids get meaner, kids retaliate more. Sounds like these kids are watching CNN and just acting out what they see adults and governments doing around world. So how do we teach our kids to BE something different? The same way we BE different. In Pastor John's message last weekend, he talked about "following our appetite"(what we feel like doing). Listen again to his message here.Take some time this week and read this passage to your child and ask what they would do if they were David. Talk to them about problems you may have had in your life, someone being mean to you. The Family Devotional has some good activities that will help get the conversation going. Look for opportunities in your child's life to reinforce this teaching, asking him about his friends, about play times about recess.
Enjoy the summer, school will be starting before you know it. Pastor Steve
Do Something NOW-Recap
TO THE KIDS TEAM @Bett
I wasn’t sure who started the saying “The Dog Days of Summer”, so I Google it…According to Wikipedia (not really sure how reliable that is?)
The Romans referred to the dog days as diēs caniculārēs and associated the hot weather with the star Sirius. They considered Sirius to be the "Dog Star" because it is the brightest star in the constellation Canis Major (Large Dog). Sirius is also the brightest star in the heavens besides the Sun.
The Old Farmer's Almanac lists the traditional timing of the Dog Days as the 40 days beginning July 3 and ending August 11.
For the Kids Ministry at Bettendorf Campus it means lower kid numbers and many teacher substitutions. I’m glad families are going on vacation and spending time together. And I’m tickled to death that teachers are getting substitutes! That shows dedication and commitment to this team and to the families at Heritage. So thanks and keep being dedicated to the team. We (the church) can’t achieve anything without commitment!
Have a great week! Steve
Thursday, July 15, 2010
Do Something Now! Event

- Delivering "Love-Packages" full of cookies and other snacks to Emergency Personnel in the QC area. Tasks: put together the Love Packages, deliver packages to QC area Fire and Police stations.
- Lydia Home- tasks: delivering care packages from the Kids Ministry, painting, yard work and cleaning
- Prospect Park- tasks: weeding and yard work
- Car Wash - tasks: greeting people, handing out cold beverages, washing cars. Located at Bettendorf Campus
Hope to see you and your family on Saturday at 9:30am sharp, Pastor Steve
Wednesday, July 14, 2010
Heartland Room (Toddlers)
Monday, July 12, 2010
TO THE KIDS TEAM @ BETT.
Kids Team,
This team continues to blow my mind, there is no other Kids team that has this passion for each other and a mission to Invest in the Next Generation!
- We had 5 teachers out that needed subs for this last weekend and ALL classes were covered! Thanks for getting subs for your classroom! Great Commitment!
- I sent out an “emergency need” on Saturday and I we multiply people show up to help! Extra volunteers showing up to see if this shift was covered! Please tell me where you see this type of team work! Amazing!
- We had another unexpected absence in one of our classes and a volunteer told me, “place me were ever you need me”. This is a single mom who is trying to model Christian behavior to her daughter. “Dear Single Mom, you are doing an incredible job! You are rockstar in my eyes!” Pastor Steve.
- We had 4 crying babies in the nursery and two of our hub workers volunteered to help out. This type of flexibility is what this team is all about.
- An extremely busy Executive Pastor volunteered his time to witness first hand what God is doing in the Kids Ministry at Heritage. This is what leadership is all about at Heritage, leading by example!
These are just things I saw but in every classroom and on the Hub there were people that sacrificed their time and energy for the Next Generation. You are called the Kids Ministry at Heritage and I praise God for you every week! You inspire me to be a better father, a better husband, a better Pastor and a better Jesus follower!
In the Kids Ministry we may not see the fruits of our labors very often, but we can join in celebration when fruit is produced. This last week at the Youth Camp (view video here) four teens gave their lives to Christ. What an incredible feeling to be part of a team that changes eternity. We are like the farmers that get the soil ready. We till up the dirt, we add some fertilizer and then we throw seed down and pray for a crop!
Have a great week! Steve
Elemenantary Class - July 10/11
this last weekend the elementary class learned that God is Righteous: I Should Keep Doing What is Right. The bible teaching was out of Nehemiah 1-6, where Nehemiah kept doing what God wanted him to do even when others discouraged him.
The title to this weekends teaching seems to be pretty simple, "keep doing what is right". But its much more difficult than it sounds. First, what the world tells us that is right is many times different than what the Bible says. Second, our flesh wants/desires many things we know is clearly not "right". Third, we have an enemy that is constantly lying to us, accusing us, and waging war on us.- He prayed! In those 6 chapters, its mentioned Nehemiah prays before each decision, prays when he is discouraged, prays when opposition comes against him - Am I spending time in prayer?
- He has a cor group of friends that he confides in (Nehemiah 2:12) - Am I living out my faith with a cor group of believers that I can confide in when I need to talk?
- He reminds the community of their mission (Nehemiah 4:14) - Am I living a missional lifestyle? Great Sermon on this, Am I an Influencer.
- Nehemiah places guards in place to watch for the enemy (Nehemiah 4:16) - What kind of "guards" am I placing in my life? We all need them, don't make the mistake thinking you don't!
Take these 4 things and talk to your family on ways you can implement them in your life. Each person in the family may have different conclusions, and that's OK. Talking about them is the most important act.
The Family Devotional this week has two great activities, one activity is all about Acts of Random Kindness. Nice coincidence that Heritage has Do Something...Now event this weekend! Show up at 9:30 this Saturday at Bettendorf Campus and do something great with your family
Pastor Steve
PreK/K Class - July 10/11
Godly friends in our children's lives, that is a wish I think all us parents have. As your child gets older their friends play a much larger role in the influences in their life. Statistically, parents are still the biggest influence (let me repeat that again...Parents you are the Biggest Influence in your child's life!) in a child's life but friends begin to play a larger role. This is one of my most common prayers, not only for my son but on weekends for your kids. That God will begin to shape Godly friends with Godly parents now, for our children. Prepare these friends and parents now before they ever get into elementary, JR and High schools.Tuesday, July 6, 2010
Elementary Class - July 3/4
Parents,your child learned about an important lesson this last weekend in the Elementary classroom, God is My Provider: I should Trust Him to Meet My Needs! The bible verse is the same this entire 8 week lesson so I'm hoping to see all the kids memorize this verse out of James 1:22!
The bible lesson was out of Exodus 17:1-7, where God provided for the Israelites in the desert when they left the slavery in Egypt.
In many of the weekend classes, the conversation revolved around Needs vs. Wants. What does it mean when we say, " Trust God to provided for my needs" but our friends have a cool new IPhone and I don't. How do we teach our kids the difference between Needs vs Wants when we life in a society with the following stats:
- The average High school student owns at least 1 credit card
- Average college grad will amass over $20,000 in debt for an bachelors degree
- 75% of American households have multiple credit cards
- Average American carries a credit card balance over $10,000
- Average auto loan is $30,738, a 40% increase in last 10 years
- Most auto loans are over 6 years in length
- After payment of a 30 yr mortgage of $240,000 you will a have paid $580,000 for the house
- Over a lifetime, the average American will pay over $600,000 in interest
- On average, one American consumes as much energy(food) as
6 Mexicans
13 Chinese
31 Indians
128 Bangladeshis
307 Tanzanians
370 Ethiopians
We parents, have some difficult decisions to make if we want to teach our kids about Wants vs. Needs! The Family Devotional has 1 activity that talks about Needs vs. Wants. The other activity is about serving others and you will have a great opportunity on July 17th, Do Something...Now! Event. Stay tuned to this blog for information about family friendly events.
Enjoy some time with your family, Pastor Steve
PreK/K Class - July 3/4
this last weekend in the PreK/K class (soon to be called the African Safari Room) we talked about I Will Do What I Say I Will Do! The Bible video lesson was from 1 Samuel 17:17-52 about famous bible store, David and Goliath. We all love the Rocky or Karate Kid movie themes and this bible story has that but this lesson focused on something else, your word is your honor.
In this story, when David was at the front lines talking to the men in the army, David said, "Who is this uncircumcised Philistine that he should defy the armies of the living God?" And then David was summoned to speak to the King and David said the same thing and that he, David, would kill the Goliath.Thursday, July 1, 2010
My Goals
Pastor Steve
Wednesday, June 30, 2010
SUMMER FUN FOR UNDER $20
Tuesday, June 29, 2010
Elementary Class June 26-27
your child started a new 8-week series called Journey Below the Earth this last weekend. The title of last weeks lesson was God is My Rock: I Should Use His Word as My Foundation! and the video bible teaching was out of Matthew 7:24-29. I have linked to the Message translation because I love how it compliments the lesson title for this week, "Use His Word". This translation says, "But if you just use my words in Bible studies and don't work them into your life, you are like a stupid carpenter who built his house on the sandy beach."
Many times we are quilted into attending another bible study, or a home group, or whatever and it doesn't change the way we think about God or people. Please, I'm not saying bible studies are not important, putting on the full armor of God is very important and fellowship with other believers is also very important but if these "tasks" do not transform you then you are just attending an event and going through the motions. Believe me, I love checking off my to-do list, sometimes I even put stuff on my list that I have already done just so I can check it off! But my relationship with God should not be that way, it should not be a check list. The stupid carpenter did just as much work as the wise carpenter to build the house but the difference was the foundation. The houses look the same from the curb but the one house will stay fixed into the solid foundation when the storm hits.Take some time this week and read this passage to your child, review the bible verse from James 1:22 (this one verse we will have for every week of this series) and have fun doing the two activities from the Family Devotional.
Enjoy the weather and see this weekend! Pastor Steve
Monday, June 28, 2010
PreK/K Class June 26-27
One of my favorite verses comes from this chapter, 1 Samuel 16:7, "Do not consider his appearance or his height, for I have rejected him. The LORD does not look at the things man looks at. Man looks at the outward appearance, but the LORD looks at the heart." What an important message to teach a young boy or girl. Preschool can be hard time for some kids as this age they begin to learn about what the world sees as attractive. But this verse says something different than the world teaches us, God looks not at outward appearances, but at the Heart!Thursday, June 24, 2010
Bed Time
Children often don't want to go to bed and the continual battle night after night is draining, causing many parents to just give up and allow children to stay up later. Don't fall into this trap!A bedtime for children is good for them as well as for their parents! That's the time my wife and I talk about our day, talk about the week ahead. I can really tell when we don't get this time, our relationship suffers! Enforcing bedtime though, means extra work for a while. Here are some suggestions for working with young children to make bedtimes work more effectively.
1) Start the bedtime routine earlier so that it doesn't all get crammed into the last few minutes. If bedtime is 8:00 pm then start the routine at 7:30 by getting on pajamas and completing a bathroom routine.
2) At bedtime, tuck each child in individually. Use this time to continue to debrief about the day in preparation for a good night sleep and pleasant dreams. My wife and I like to end the day with a prayer thanking God for another day. Kids need to hear that attitude of gratitude from parents!
3) Enforce quietness. A child may not feel tired so lying quietly is all you need to require.
4) If a child gets up or calls out. Quickly, calmly, and firmly, get the child back in bed with as little dialogue as possible. This is NOT time to negotiate!
5) Hang in there, be consistent, and invest in the self-discipline development of your child. You and your children will benefit from the work you put into the process.
What are some ideas you've found helpful to teach your children self discipline at bedtime?
Tuesday, June 22, 2010
PreK/K and Elementary Parents

Monday, June 21, 2010
Elementary Class June 19-20
As I read through these passages, I relate most to Thomas, he is the one that gets the bad rap for doubting ("a Doubting Thomas") but I'm sure all the disciples doubted at one time or another. Here is the Messiah, the Returning King, the Son of God, the one who performed miracles, raised people from the dead...and HE was dead in a tomb. That's not how the story was suppose to go, not the story book ending that we want for any saviour. But that was God's plan and many times as we are in the thick of a difficult time we have a hard time seeing God's plan. I know I have been in times in my life where I'm asking God, "what are you doing, I don't get it?" but after the fact I can look back and see what God wanted to teach me. And its through these difficult times, when we persevere that that we grow, as the bible verse states (James 1:2-3).PreK/K Class June 19-20
this last weekend was the last lesson of the series called Center Stage. This series taught your child that worship is showing God that we love him. The next 8 weeks we will be in a series called Ten Hut (check out the intro video), a study of King David in the Old Testament. Back to this last weekend...The PreK/K class learned about "I worship God Because He Loves Me!" and the bible story came from John 3:1-18, 19:1-41, 20:1-9, where we read about Jesus' death and resurrection. Take some time this week and talk with your child about Jesus and what He did on the cross and why, what it means to you.Calling all Men
As I reflect on Fathers Day and look around at all the boys in our Kids Ministry that have NO positive men figures in their lives I must call on the men of my church that are not serving. I ask you to pray about serving in the PreK/K or Elementary classes 2 times per month.If you are a wife reading this post, please pass this post on to your husband to pray about this request.
Pray on these facts:
- According to 72.2 % of the U.S. population, fatherlessness is the most significant family or social problem facing America.
- An estimated 23.6 million children (32.3 percent) live absent their biological father.
- Of students in grades 1 through 12, 39 percent (17.7 million) live in homes absent their biological fathers.
- The 1997 Gallup Youth Survey found the following among U.S. teens:
33 % live away from their father
43% of urban teens live away from their father - Children who were part of the "post war generation" could expect to grow up with two biological parents who were married to each other. Eighty percent did. Today, only about 50% of children will spend their entire childhood in an intact family.
- With the increasing number of premarital births and a continuing high divorce rate, the proportion of children living with just one parent rose from 9 percent in 1960 to 28 percent in 1996. Currently, 57.7 percent of all black children, 31.8 percent of all Hispanic children, and 20.9 percent of all white children are living in single-parent homes.
Contact me if you want to help Invest in this Next Generation, Pastor Steve
Saturday, June 19, 2010
Happy Fathers Day!
To all the Fathers out there I want to wish you a happy Fathers Day! And now for some challenging words to all fathers (including ME). According to a recent poll the percentage of dads that answered that they NEVER engage in the following activities: - Read to their child - 39%
- Visit their child's classroom - 32%
- Volunteer at their child's school - 54%
- Have lunch with their child at school - 74%
You are being watched! Dads are always “on stage,” and that awareness should add extra motivation to speak and act responsibly. Each of us Dads should be challenged regularly by these simple questions:
- What kind of example am I setting? My son is watching, and he needs to know what he should aspire to become.
- How does a “real man” act? My daughter is watching, because she needs to know what to expect from men.
- My child’s friends, teammates, and classmates—some of whom don’t have a father at home—are also watching. What lessons about fathering am I teaching them?
There is no such thing as the perfect Dad but we do need to strive to be the Men that God has called us to be. Pastor Steve


